WIBTA if I left a nasty review for a place that didn’t treat our nanny well?

In a community meant to nurture connection and support among parents, a simple toddler group meeting turned into a moment of exclusion and discomfort. A mother, juggling work and childcare, trusted her nanny to represent their family, only to witness her being singled out and made to feel unwelcome in a space designed to bring people together.

The nanny, introduced warmly as part of the family’s care circle, instead faced surprise and judgment, as if her presence disrupted the group’s unspoken rules. What was supposed to be a joyful, inclusive gathering became a painful reminder of how rigid expectations and narrow definitions of family can alienate those who don’t fit the mold.