Friend's Girlfriend Laughed About Almost Getting Us K**led by a Bear So I Banned Her
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AITA for telling my brother that if my parents need money they can ask me for it themselves.
My parents did not think a girl needed an education, so they chose not to save any money for me growing up. They had no interest in my education or extracurricular activities. My mom's brother, Bryan, grew up in the UK and he had a different attitude. He would always check in on me and see how I was doing in school. He bought me my first graphing calculator. Because I wanted to impress him, I worked myself raw to graduate with honors. I was the salutatorian in my school and received a scholarship to my dream school. I did not even bother telling my parents. I graduated from high school and moved to the west coast. My parents tried to convince me to come home, but I was quite happy for the first time I could remember. I studied in a STEM field and was recruited before I graduated. My job pays me very well and I met my husband at work. My brother also attended university and is an engineer. He does well for himself, except that he is constantly giving our parents money. My brother talked to me recently about how we needed to support our parents in their old age. I said I had no problem contributing to them. However, they would have to ask me for help. I would not volunteer it or send it through him. If they wanted my money, they had to ask for it. He says that they won't because it would shame my father to ask a woman for money. I am okay with him feeling shame after the way he raised me. My brother says I am being unreasonable and it does not matter since my parents know where the money will be coming from. I think that my parents need to get over themselves.
AITA for telling my sister that her husband is having an affair?
I am seventeen years old, and my twenty-five-year-old sister is married to a thirty-eight-year-old man named James. Recently, while having lunch at a restaurant with a friend, I saw James with another woman. They appeared to be on an intimate date. My friend advised me to record them instead of confronting them immediately, so we gathered video proof. I went straight to my sister's house and showed her the footage. Instead of being sad, she became furious with me, accusing me of trying to ruin her marriage out of jealousy, and she kicked me out and blocked me. The next day, my sister arrived at our parents' house with her bags, having decided to leave James. She apologized to me, explaining that she already had suspicions but had reacted badly because she had fought hard against our family to marry him. Our father had previously warned her about James's manipulative nature and the age gap. My sister and I reconciled, and she is now proceeding with a divorce.
AITA for not wanting to "adjust" to my(28F) boyfriend's(26M) parents living with us for months at a time?
My boyfriend and I have been living together for three years in Australia. A few months ago, his parents arrived from India to live with us. Although I was excited to make them feel comfortable, their demands soon made me feel uneasy in my own home. They were uncomfortable with us sleeping in the same room, resulting in my boyfriend sleeping in the living room for two months. The mother took over the kitchen and excluded me from grocery shopping, and they did not acknowledge me as his girlfriend in front of friends or help with cleaning. They also rearranged furniture against our requests, and his father expressed concern that I was not helping in the kitchen, which was untrue. Furthermore, they credited my boyfriend for things he did not do and criticized my clothing, claiming it violated their family values. My primary issue is that my boyfriend did not acknowledge these problems or stand up for me. He dismissed my concerns, saying his parents were guests and his father was simply traditional. After they left, I moved to another city for a job, and our long-distance relationship has been great. However, he recently informed me that his parents are visiting again for two months, having booked the tickets without consulting me. He expects me to accept frequent, long visits as a condition of moving back in together. I feel my privacy and personal space are being disregarded, and I want him to consider my needs and set boundaries.
