AITA here? My dad thinks my citizenship is a joke.
Born between borders and caught in the cracks of bureaucracy, this individual’s identity is tangled in a painful limbo. Despite a lifelong connection to the United States—living, marrying, and raising children there—they face the harsh reality of missing documentation that denies them the very citizenship they were promised through their father. The weight of an unseen administrative failure now threatens their ability to prove who they are.
As the struggle unfolds, frustration and blame rise, straining family bonds and self-worth. The denial of a passport becomes more than just a bureaucratic hurdle—it’s a fracture in the foundation of belonging, igniting a raw emotional battle over responsibility, identity, and the right to claim one’s place in the world.
THE COMMENTS SECTION WENT WILD – REDDIT HAD *A LOT* TO SAY ABOUT THIS ONE.:
When users weighed in, they held nothing back. It’s a raw, honest look at what people really think.
After reading through the Reddit comments, it's clear that many sympathize with the original poster's frustration. The situation highlights a common issue for children born abroad to US citizen parents who don't complete the necessary paperwork early on. While it's understandable that the father might feel defensive, the lack of a consular report of birth abroad has caused significant practical challenges for the OP, affecting their ability to obtain essential identification and citizenship documentation. Many commenters advised taking proactive steps now, such as working with immigration attorneys to resolve the status and gathering any supporting evidence of the father's citizenship.
In conclusion, while the OP's frustration with their father might come across as harsh, it stems from legitimate difficulties that have impacted their life. This story serves as a cautionary tale about the importance of timely documentation in citizenship cases. Ultimately, the focus should be on finding a solution rather than assigning blame, and hopefully, with legal assistance, the OP can secure their citizenship status and move forward with fewer obstacles.
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AITA for telling my sister she has more than enough children?
My sister already has six children with her husband, which is far more than they can comfortably provide for given their financial troubles. It is also more than both of them can handle, resulting in my fifteen-year-old niece being treated as an unpaid babysitter who is constantly expected to help with her younger siblings. Recently, my sister experienced a miscarriage during the early stages of her seventh pregnancy. While talking to her about this painful experience, I remarked that at least she already has six other children and suggested that perhaps that is enough. My sister was highly offended, calling me insensitive and stating that her family choices do not concern me. However, they do affect me, as I have loaned her and her husband money on multiple occasions to help support their household.
AITAH for not telling my housemate I’m moving out and taking everything with me?
I have lived with two of my friends in a rented house share for ten months. Around three months into our tenancy, a girl we did not know moved in to fill the final room. While I was initially excited to have another female housemate, our first interaction was tense; instead of greeting me, she immediately asked about our cleaning plans. Despite explaining our weekly routine, she quickly began using our kitchen items and leaving them dirty. When one of my friends gently addressed this, she reacted by shouting at me for fifteen minutes, accusing me of trying to look good in front of the male roommates. Over the next seven months, her behavior deteriorated further. She monopolized the clothes drying racks, damaged our communal chopping boards, and left her hair all over the floors. Additionally, she filled the entire freezer, left appliances dirty, neglected bathroom hygiene, and took my personal hygiene products without permission. Whenever we tried to address these grievances, her anger was directed solely at me. Recently, a new job opportunity allowed my two friends and me to find a three-bedroom flat together. We are moving out next week. Since we purchased about ninety percent of the communal items in the house—including the toaster, microwave, kettle, and vacuum—we plan to take them with us. Because our communication has completely broken down, I have decided not to inform her of our departure, leaving her to find out when she notices the viewings or when the moving van arrives.
WIBTA to insist my neighbor keep a yard schedule?
For background I have a severely reactive rescue dog. She's terrified of other dogs and freaks out majorly when she sees them or hears them. My partner and I have been working with our vet and a behavioral trainer and we've made some progress, but my dog is still not truly comfortable anywhere but her own yard. A new lady just moved in next door, and she has two big dogs. They seem like nice dogs, they are quiet and she works with them a lot. The problem is that she works from home full time, and her dogs are always outside. She doesn't leave them there for hours or anything, but I never know when she's going to let them out or for how long. She also spends a lot of time out there with them after work and on weekends. To be fair to her, she trains them and she doesn't let them run up on the fence, and if they do bark, she makes them go inside. They're still out on the other side of the fence though and my dog is now scared and reacting in her own backyard. When my dog starts carrying on, she is the one who has to go inside. She already can't enjoy walks and now she can't even enjoy being outside. I asked my neighbor if she'd consider a schedule for the dogs so that my dog can enjoy her yard too without the neighbor's dogs freaking her out on the other side of the fence. She was polite about it but said no, she bought the house with the yard for her dogs, and they use it. She said she'd be glad to tell me when she's leaving with them for a period of hours, but otherwise she's not going to change what she's doing day to day. So nothing changed and her dogs get plenty of outdoor time and mine gets none except for the stray times when she takes one of her dogs to a training class or takes both of them for a hike. I'm really upset and want to insist that we adopt a schedule so that my dog can have some outside time too. My dog does not get the same opportunity as her dogs, not even close. Her dogs have free access five days a week, weeknights, and weekends. My dog only gets outside time now when she says she is leaving for a class or a hike. If I let my dog out to sun herself at 10:30 on a Tuesday, sure enough, it won't be five minutes before she's letting her dogs out and then my dog freaks out and has to come in. She is not getting anywhere close to what they are getting. The fence is a privacy fence. My dog freaks out when she can hear and smell the other dogs as well as see them. She can't see these dogs but she knows they're there.
